I was at a wedding last summer that had a very judicious rule imposed. they had a large jar full of every couples name. When guests dinged on their glasses, the DJ picked a slip from the jar and read out one of the names. That chosen couple then had to kiss and the newlyweds had to kiss each other in the same way. It was with our church family so the examples (some very romantic indeed) weren’t gross or embarrassing..... ....from Katy Noelle